the extreme passion in our sex life always exist? My birth data is December
16, 1973, at 11:47 pm in Rapid City, South Dakota. My girlfriend’s birth
data is April 27, 1976, at 7:44 am in
St. Paul, Minnesota.
amazed me when I first looked up your charts was this rare and unusual
"Chiron connection" between you and your gal pal. And yes, from this
point forward you will be known as "Ms. Sagittarius” (or Ms. Sag for
short) and your girlfriend will be known as "Ms. Taurus." So, Ms. Sag,
Chiron is an asteroid that represents a symbolic spiritual wound in
the chart. Like a birthmark, we all have it somewhere! Unlike Saturn
(a "tough love" kind of planet"), Chiron is all about understanding
our wounds and healing them with love and empathy.
g.f., Ms. Taurus, has Chiron in Aries, and it sits exactly on your Mars,
the planet that represents your sexual drive and physical energy. And
sweetie, let me tell you before I go any further, Mars is at home in
Aries (it rules the sign) so I'm sure a basic sense of horniness, like
an old hound dog, is your usual M.O., whether you're single, in love
or involved with three international models.
addition to her Chiron hitting your Mars, your Chiron is widely conjunct
(same sign, close degree) her Venus, planet of romantic love. (Let's
say the difference between Venus and Mars—forgetting Cybil Shepherd's
silly new show—is this: Venus is the foreplay, Mars is the actual doin'
it.) So it seems that sexual healing is one of the reasons the foundation
for this relationship was laid (hee hee) to begin with. You both have
the ability to heal each other's wounds in relation to your sex drive
(maybe you've had a relationship before that ended in "lesbian bed death")
and sensual pleasure (maybe she's had lovers who couldn't understand
that she needs to be touched for hours in all sorts of adorable places,
in addition to just doing the deed). It's really a mini-miracle that
you met. You can heal each other in a profound (and sexy, sexy, sexy
for your initial question, it's really Ms. Taurus who can keep this
passion going for years, so follow her lead! You, my darling, have a
chart that is heavily weighted with fire (lots of planets in Sag and
Aries) and air (plenty of Libra and Aquarius planets, too). Fire and
air have less staying power than water and earth. Fire likes to jump
around from cutie to cutie while air gets a little bored and detached.
Taurus has a whole lot of earth (Taurus planets) and water (Cancer and
Scorpio planets), which give her something that you may be lacking:
patience and staying power! And remember that sensual stuff I talked
about before in relation to your girlfriend? It's up to you to view
her immense sensual desires as a challenge (and a pleasure!). Trust
me kid, after a year you may get tired of pleasing her in twenty different
ways before her clothes are even off, but it's up to you to dedicate
yourself to her pleasure. If you ain't giving your all to her in bed
after the proverbial honeymoon stage, you've only got yourself to blame!
(I know you fiery types love a challenge! Hope that's a big enough one
of Attraction: Subject to Change
talked about what you have to give, but you also have a lot to receive,
young Ms. Sag. Here's why: your Mercury and Neptune, both in Sag, are
conjunct Ms. Taurus' Seventh House cusp, also called the Descendant,
and (I like to call it) "the doorway to her house of love." Mercury
is the planet of communication, charm and wit, while Neptune is the
planet of healing, dreams and imagination. Honey, there is no doubt
in mind that you are a romantic inspiration to your lover gal. You're
lucky because she is attracted to not just your mind (Mercury) but your
the thing, though. Mercury (the root of the word "mercurial") is a quick-changing
fella, while Neptune is all dreamy and moody and changeable in an emotional
way. It's up to you both to build trust, and I mean with a capital "T,"
so that as you, and your relationship, change and grow, Ms. security-minded
Taurus doesn't freak out. It's confusing, I know. She's attracted to
your mind and soul, and to the way you are always changing and hard
to pin down. Yet, over time this could become a threat to her too.
girlfriend has a lot of Taurus and Cancer in her chart, and those signs
really hate to have their food dish moved. So try to use your communication
skills to reassure her that you're there for her no matter what. Her
attraction for you will always be there, so doesn't she deserve to hear
the same from you in words…a lot?
the planet of change and self-transformation has been hovering around
her Seventh House cusp for awhile now, and lands there exactly from
mid-November through December 10. Use that time to draw out her dark
side and her deepest fears. If you can show her that her worst insecurities
and most "perverse" fantasies don't make you want to run screaming from
her but actually make you love her more, you can set a great foundation
for a thriving, incredibly passionate sex life and love life with this
chickie baby for years to come. Good luck, young Sag!
questions to Jill at ASTROJILLY@aol.com. Please include the words "Bedroom
Astrology" in the subject line.