birth charts offer valuable information about your dating style, choice
of partner and love life. The relationships between the planets and the
houses they occupy (twelve designated departments that comprise your astrology
wheel) provide additional clues. Once you understand your true needs,
satisfying relationships are easier to come by. While a single article
cannot do justice to this very complex topic, todayís focus is on ďrevolving
door romances.Ē Unfamiliar with the term? Read on! This condition is a
frenetic episode where love rushes in and out like a comet.
Today, Gone Tomorrow
ever wondered why some individuals attract love partners every time they
turn around, while others put years of distance between relationships?
Individuals with the former condition may attract numerous unsuitable
partners in rapid succession, while those who stay unattached tend to
avoid recreating painful relationship experiences. The optimum path lies
somewhere in the middle, but getting there can be a challenge.
All the planets
play a part in shaping your life script. Those most associated with love
are the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars, known as the personal planets.
Placement of these planets in the houses, particularly in the zone of
intimacy could trigger a string of romances. The zone of intimacy or relationships
includes the Fifth (dates and lovers), Sixth (co-workers and business
contacts), Seventh (personal and business partners) and Eighth (sex and
intimacy). Although the zone of intimacy is important when examining relationship
patterns, a cluster of three or more personal planets in any house or
sign could make you vulnerable to random love encounters or stimulate
these conditions when the planetsí current positions are making contact
with your own.
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The Energy in Your Chart
number of personal planets in mutable signs (Gemini, Virgo,
Sagittarius and Pisces) lends a restless quality to your feelings and emotions. Your
group plays the field when you arenít in a committed relationshipóbut
sometimes you can be downright fickle even when you are. Current interests
or hobbies bring eligible prospects your way. Moods drive your preferences
for socializing and meeting new people even though expression by sign
varies significantly. The range of exchange is broad because you are masters
when it comes to opening lines. With your easygoing communication style,
dates find you romantic and attractive. You wonít linger unless you feel
you are drawn to opposite types who are amused by your wit and wisdom.
Since you may tend to talk too much, you miss compatibility cues and body
language. Individuals who may have recently ended long-standing relationships
need someone to talk to rather than a new commitment. You mistake their
focused gaze for blatant passion. While your heart is beating faster because
this ďadmirerĒ takes in every word, your practical side is begging for
a reality check. Bamóout comes your day planneróyou want the newcomerís
name on all your open dates. You are so sure this one has possibilities.
Throw Neptune into the equation with Venus, Mars or both and you have
the illusion of loveóthe premature kind. Good thing youíre the flexible
type. Soon youíll be asking yourself what that was all about. In truth,
the rush into love didnít give you enough time to figure out whether you
like each other as friends let alone lovers.
predominately cardinal signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn) take
on that runaway love scenario when they cluster in mutable houses in the
chart (Third, Sixth, Ninth and Twelfth) or in the zone of intimacy (Seventh and Eighth Houses). If
you have this pattern, you facilitate an active social life when you are
looking for a relationship. You know that if you donít get out and circulate
you wonít find romance. While your sign elements draw partners for different
reasons, you are mesmerized by the devoted individuals you attract into
your life. You prefer emotional investment in relationships or you bail
engagements, separations and multiple marriages are the norm. Although
some of you have a selfish streak, itís not unusual for you to give much
more in a relationship than you receive. Once you realize your needs are
never going to be met, youíre bored and out of there. After a breakup,
Aries and Libra clusters generally return quickly to the dating scene
in search of someone who appreciates them for who they are. The lonely-hearts
club is not their thing. Cancer and Capricorn clusters almost always need
more time to figure out what went wrong. If this is you, donít be shy
about reconnecting with eligibles. Just avoid the greedy ones and stay
away from the altar for a while.
Itís Me and Iím in Love Again
I didnít forget about the fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius),
who attract runaway love cycles in houses Two and Eleven as well as the
intimacy zone. I hear ďIím in love againĒ repeatedly these days from several
clients with predominantly fixed placements. The love problems with these
individuals are complex since they donít usually care for fleeting relationships.
Bonding with the wrong person at the worst possible time leads the list.
Most canít figure out how they got into the relationship, even though
they did the chasing. Some hang on to broken hearts and anger when the
relationship ends, while others look for immediate bonding with another.
Addiction to partners or enabling them to get away with some very bad
behavior are prominent issues.
going on here? Right now, the fixed signs in particular are experiencing
the effects of rebellious Uranus and dreamy Neptune in Aquarius. Encounters
in the form of trysts, seductions, chases, jealous rages and the illusion
of love keep the heart center vulnerable. Shakeups result in separations,
divorce and breakups in many a relationship, yet the fixed group keeps
drawing addictive attachments during this phase.
If you are
the type who falls in love easily, only to have the relationship dissolve,
itís time to assess the facts. After reading this article, have you identified
your Achillesí heel? Break the runaway love cycle and take the time to